Don’t know what is about sexual fantasies but they always sound weirder than they are
#classic
I really hate you
Erm…why is it that indifference and disinterest turn people on? What is wrong with you people? The moment I’m disdainful and repulsed I appeal to you? I actually *like* it when people like me!?
I really really hate the whole “radical potential of the selfie” shit…
karaj: attention (in praise of) chilly women
“helmut lethen has attempted to distinguish cynicism from coldness or ‘the cold persona’…for lethen, coldness is related to cynicism but in some ways distinct from it. like boredom, it involves a lack of affect, a decided understatedness and distance, a disinclination to say what is on one’s mind….
…i began thinking about the work of two twentieth-century women poets: sylvia plath and diane wakoski. it strikes me that in the work of both Man appears as, if not a dream, a fascination and a terror: and that source of the fascination and the terror is, simply, Man’s power to—to dominate, tyrannize, choose, or reject the woman. the charisma of Man seems to come purely from his power over her and his control of the world by force, not from anything fertile or live-giving in him. and in the work of both of these poets, it is finally the woman’s sense of herself—embattled, possessed—that gives the poetry its dynamic charge, its rhythms of struggle, need, will, and female energy. until recently this female anger and this furious awareness of the Man’s power over her were not available materials to the female poet…
—adrienne rich, “when we dead awaken” (via karaj)
Is it normal to feel suicidal when you’re on your period?
Started my period today. Ouch. I get the worst skin, cramps and mood swings when I’m menstruating I’m like The Nightmare
My face hurts and I want to cut my head off
I’d be a happier person if my skin was better
